Friends with benefits

Friends with benefits? Damn I hate that term...at least when it relates to me!

What's up with guys that claim to 'be into you' ...then you don't hear from them? They want the benefits of a relationship...but without the actual relationship.

Well I've put it out there in the atmosphere...and to a guy that is 'into me' ,that casual, friendship with benefits is soooo NOT what I'm into.

My reasons for doing this? He should know up front right where my mind is and what I want.

So I rolled the dice. I don't look at it as much of a gamble...simply because I think we'll both win in the end. We both know where I stand..and that prevents misunderstandings. If that's not what he wants, then we can both step back.

My gut tells me I won't here from him again. Pity.